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How to Come Up With That Initial Tinder Message, Because We Know It’s Low-Key Stressful

How to Come Up With That Initial Tinder Message, Because We Know It’s Low-Key Stressful

I never know what to say to my Tinder matches. No matter how many friends I consult or how excited I am about the match, I find myself struggling to come up with the right way to strike up a conversation. “Hey” feels like not enough, but asking someone to coffee immediately seems overeager. It feels nearly impossible to strike the right balance of expressing interest but not appearing too interested before you really get to know them. Luckily, Nicole Moore, a love and relationship coach, has some helpful advice. And she’s extra qualified to give it because she met her husband on Tinder. Here’s Moore’s advice for the best way to start a conversation on Tinder or another dating app.

Pinpoint a Specific Detail

Rule number one, according to Moore, is to tailor your message to your match. “The best thing to do when you match with someone you’re interested in on a dating app like Tinder is to comment on something very specific that you noticed about the other person’s profile,” Moore told POPSUGAR.

Look through their profile and find something, anything, that you are interested in or have in common with the person.阅读更多 »How to Come Up With That Initial Tinder Message, Because We Know It’s Low-Key Stressful